Health Inputs
  • Home
  • Health Tips
    • All
    • Amazing Health Facts
    • Diet & Nutrician
    • Exercise
    • Mental Health

    10 Tips For Good Health

    man

    10 Tips To Maintain Weight Loss

    Why Can’t I lose Weight? 7 Sneaky Causes Of Weight Loss Resistance

    Why Can’t I lose Weight? 7 Sneaky Causes Of Weight Loss Resistance

    chirp-shark-tank

    How to use the Self Massage Roller to reduce Post-Workout Pain

    depression-hope

    Too Depressed to Do Anything? Here is how to get Help

    muscle-building

    How Many Times Per Week To Train Each Muscle To Grow

    headache-migraine

    12 Foods That Can Trigger Migraine Pain

    chirp-wheel

    Wonders of Foam Roller for Back and Neck Pain

    massage-neck

    Self-Massage to Relax the Neck, Shoulders and Cervical

  • Home Remedies
    old-man sitting on stone

    Exercise for Seniors: 5 Tips to Help You Stay Active During the Coronavirus Pandemic

    Best-Diet-To-Lose-Weight

    11 Best Diet To Lose Weight – Eat As Much As You Want

    women

    How to Take Care of Health After 30s

    weight loss food

    15 High Protein Vegan Foods To Lose Weight

    dark-cicles-eyes

    10 Natural Home Remedies To Get Rid of Dark Circles Under Eyes

    honey

    17 Health Benefits of Honey & Its Uses

  • Beauty
    eucalyptus-bath

    Eucalyptus Bath To Relieve Stress, Headaches, and Skin Rejuvination

    wrinkles-under-eyes

    The secrets to ensure you don’t miss out on fabulous eyelashes

    dark-cicles-eyes

    Eye Bag Causes and Natural Remedies

    20 Tips on How to use Aloe Vera for Sunburn

    woman doing makeup

    New Years Eve Makeup Tips & Ideas

    ginger-root

    How To Make Homemade Ginger Oil

    makeup-tricks

    10 Myths About Makeup and Reality

    Tattoos

    5 Things You Need To Know About Removing Tattoos

    Tips and Tricks For Applying Lipstick

  • Nutrition
    chamomile tea

    6 Teas To Lower Cholesterol

    lemon

    10 Health Benefits of Lemon

    woman eating oats

    8 Scientifically Proven Benefits of Eating Oatmeal and Oats

    medicinal-herbs

    Chitrakadi Vati Uses and Amazing Benefits

    Yellow-kratom

    Buy Yellow Kratom: Know its Benefits, Strains and Effects

    barefoot-foot-socks-person

    Diabetic Socks: How to buy best ones?

    giloy

    10 Surprising Health Benefits of Giloy

    Ashwagandha

    Ashwagandha Advantages & Disadvantages

    fruits

    6 Health Benefits of Citrus Fruits

  • Alternative Therapies
    barefoot-foot-socks-person

    Diabetic Socks: How to buy best ones?

    massage

    Marma Therapy Benefits for Your body

    zumba

    8 Benefits of Zumba Dance for Weight Loss

    baby

    Safest Essential Oils For Babies

    Pranayama

    Pranayama : Types, Techniques and Benefits

    Shirodhara

    What Is Shirodhara Good For & Its Benefits

    Leech

    Hirudotherapy Medicinal Leech Therapy – Alternative Healing

    essential-oils

    Essential Oils For Hair

    Mortar-pestle

    Treatment With Metals In Ayurveda – Alt Therapy

No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • Health Tips
    • All
    • Amazing Health Facts
    • Diet & Nutrician
    • Exercise
    • Mental Health

    10 Tips For Good Health

    man

    10 Tips To Maintain Weight Loss

    Why Can’t I lose Weight? 7 Sneaky Causes Of Weight Loss Resistance

    Why Can’t I lose Weight? 7 Sneaky Causes Of Weight Loss Resistance

    chirp-shark-tank

    How to use the Self Massage Roller to reduce Post-Workout Pain

    depression-hope

    Too Depressed to Do Anything? Here is how to get Help

    muscle-building

    How Many Times Per Week To Train Each Muscle To Grow

    headache-migraine

    12 Foods That Can Trigger Migraine Pain

    chirp-wheel

    Wonders of Foam Roller for Back and Neck Pain

    massage-neck

    Self-Massage to Relax the Neck, Shoulders and Cervical

  • Home Remedies
    old-man sitting on stone

    Exercise for Seniors: 5 Tips to Help You Stay Active During the Coronavirus Pandemic

    Best-Diet-To-Lose-Weight

    11 Best Diet To Lose Weight – Eat As Much As You Want

    women

    How to Take Care of Health After 30s

    weight loss food

    15 High Protein Vegan Foods To Lose Weight

    dark-cicles-eyes

    10 Natural Home Remedies To Get Rid of Dark Circles Under Eyes

    honey

    17 Health Benefits of Honey & Its Uses

  • Beauty
    eucalyptus-bath

    Eucalyptus Bath To Relieve Stress, Headaches, and Skin Rejuvination

    wrinkles-under-eyes

    The secrets to ensure you don’t miss out on fabulous eyelashes

    dark-cicles-eyes

    Eye Bag Causes and Natural Remedies

    20 Tips on How to use Aloe Vera for Sunburn

    woman doing makeup

    New Years Eve Makeup Tips & Ideas

    ginger-root

    How To Make Homemade Ginger Oil

    makeup-tricks

    10 Myths About Makeup and Reality

    Tattoos

    5 Things You Need To Know About Removing Tattoos

    Tips and Tricks For Applying Lipstick

  • Nutrition
    chamomile tea

    6 Teas To Lower Cholesterol

    lemon

    10 Health Benefits of Lemon

    woman eating oats

    8 Scientifically Proven Benefits of Eating Oatmeal and Oats

    medicinal-herbs

    Chitrakadi Vati Uses and Amazing Benefits

    Yellow-kratom

    Buy Yellow Kratom: Know its Benefits, Strains and Effects

    barefoot-foot-socks-person

    Diabetic Socks: How to buy best ones?

    giloy

    10 Surprising Health Benefits of Giloy

    Ashwagandha

    Ashwagandha Advantages & Disadvantages

    fruits

    6 Health Benefits of Citrus Fruits

  • Alternative Therapies
    barefoot-foot-socks-person

    Diabetic Socks: How to buy best ones?

    massage

    Marma Therapy Benefits for Your body

    zumba

    8 Benefits of Zumba Dance for Weight Loss

    baby

    Safest Essential Oils For Babies

    Pranayama

    Pranayama : Types, Techniques and Benefits

    Shirodhara

    What Is Shirodhara Good For & Its Benefits

    Leech

    Hirudotherapy Medicinal Leech Therapy – Alternative Healing

    essential-oils

    Essential Oils For Hair

    Mortar-pestle

    Treatment With Metals In Ayurveda – Alt Therapy

No Result
View All Result
HealthNews
No Result
View All Result
Home Health Benefits

How To Identify Abusive Relationships

1.5k
VIEWS
Share on FacebookShare on Twitter

When we hear about abusive relationships we soon think of physical assault. But that this is not the only sign that the relationship is totally harmful. In many of the cases, in fact, there is no physical violence, but there is obviously moral/ mental violence.woman

Blackmail, humiliation, disqualification, rejection, abuse of power, demerit, that is, the practice of any action that makes a woman feel mistreated or embarrassed characterizes itself as moral violence. Learn how to recognize the main signs of moral and / or physical violence and check out the guidelines to get rid of an abusive relationship as soon as possible.

Signs of an abusive relationship

Abusive relationships are more common than you can imagine. The problem is that many women do not perceive or “pretend they do not realize” that the relationship is harmful, either because they still like the partner, or because they are afraid to end.

Recognizing the situation is the first step to getting rid of an abusive relationship, so watch out for the main signs:

1. He is very jealous

No, excessive jealousy is not a “sign of love.” Your partner thinks you should not talk to other people; “Makes ugly face” whenever you see you interacting with someone; Do you think that everywhere there is someone looking or “giving up on you” ?!

Know that this is not normal and, much less, a sign that he / she loves you. Unfortunately, it is much more associated with the fact that you think you are “owned” by it.

2. It makes you feel that you do not understand certain subjects

Even if he does not say openly, do you realize that your partner thinks you do not understand certain issues?

This can happen in both the conversation and when you are among friends. Many times, incidentally, subtly. In other cases, this can be said directly / disrespectfully, for example, in a group conversation, when your boyfriend or husband says, “Do not meddle, woman does not understand by car.”

3. He tells you that you are crazy and / or make drama

Phrases of this type demonstrate the partner’s desire to demean you, make you suspicious of your own sanity, and / or simply the desire to cut off a conversation that, at that time, is not interesting to him / her.

4. He wants to control his life and choices

Does your partner want to know all the details of what you did in the service? Try to determine what you will or will not do in relation to work or studies? Do you think about the type of clothes you “can or can not wear”? Control the money and determine what you can spend?

Wanting to control all the details of a partner’s life is a classic behavior within an abusive relationship.

For any action or decision of the woman clearly demonstrate the intent to control. “This is also evident when the woman ceases to feel deserving of privacy; when he thinks he will have to give satisfaction all the time, “he says.

Some partners, by the way, control their partners through the cell phone. I’ve heard some women say that before leaving home to work, they had to show their underwear to their partner; while others had their bodies undergo a visual analysis by their partners for brands.

5. He makes jokes about you in front of friends

If your partner makes specific jokes about you or about women in general, to “get the attention of friends,” recognize that this attitude is totally disrespectful (in addition to being childish).

6. He does not respect when you say you do not want sex

You’re not in the mood for sex, but he insists? Or worse, you always give in because you’re afraid of displeasing him / her?

Have you heard your boyfriend or husband saying that “woman who does not give assistance opens competition”? Make no mistake, these are classic signs of an abusive relationship.

7. Sometimes he (she) holds you tight or yells at you

Physical aggression is not just the act of beating. There is no joke that hurts. “It hurt, it was not a joke, it was aggression.

Often situations like this are accompanied by speeches in which the partner tries to make you feel guilty for what happened: “Sorry, I did not mean to, I did not want to be aggressive, you made me lose my mind “.

8. He tries to make you feel guilty for having started a discussion.

If any discussion becomes a discussion and your partner claims that “it was you who started,” this makes it clear that he does not want to follow the matter and does not open the dialogue between the couple.

9. He says that no one will love you / accept you.

“Fat like that, do you think anyone will want you but me ?!” “You do not know how to do anything, who else will accept that?” “You’re stupid, you have to stay at home being held by me.”

Offenses, both physical and psychological aspects, are typical in an abusive relationship and show a desire to diminish the partner and make her believe that no matter how bad the relationship is, “she does not deserves nothing better than that. ”

10. He threatens to leave you.

“If you continue with this subject, I’m leaving”; “I can not take these charges anymore, I’m going to finish with you”; “If you accept this job because you do not love me” are just a few examples of blackmail and threats that should not be admitted into a relationship.

11. He is not happy with his achievements.

Have you ever noticed that your partner is not happy when you arrive happy when you get a new job or a job promotion, when you enroll in a new course and / or have a personal fulfillment?

This type of attitude demonstrates that he does not respect his individuality, does not like to see you “doing it on his own”, that he understands that his achievements should be only those related to him / her.

12. He does not like you to leave without him.

Believe that you do not have to go out with your friends, that you do not have to be friends with the work people, that only the relation with him (a) suffices.

And this should not be defined simply as jealousy, as it is much more related to a sense of ownership, of control.

In this context, there is often a fear that other people in your life will alert you to the fact that you are in a sick relationship. So he (it) desires so much that you continue living only “in the world of yours”.

13. He says that “in the strife of husband and wife no one chooses”

Has your partner ever said this several times, both regarding your relationship and that of others? More typical behavior within an abusive marriage / dating .

14. He is aggressive by knocking on doors or throwing objects

Although he has never beaten you, you notice that he changes drastically in the middle of a discussion and has aggressive attitudes, like hitting or kicking doors, throwing objects, etc.

15. He (or has) assaulted you (or already assaulted you)

It seems a bit obvious, but it’s always good to stress: physical aggression is the biggest representation of an abusive relationship. It is that moment that requires a rapid, definitive decision-making.

Just stop to think: what might come after that? If he has already assaulted you once, you have a good chance of doing it again; and aggression can move to a more advanced stage. Make sure you “have waited too long”, get away from this relationship as soon as possible.

16. He promises that he will no longer assault you.

Very common in abusive relationships, after the aggression, the partner shows repentance, promise to change, give gifts, talk how much you love, etc. And it is at this moment that many women give up denouncing and / or ending the relationship.

17. You think you need it to live “financially well”

In some cases the woman lives as if she were in a “golden cage,” “trapped, but surrounded by new cars, jewels and a social life on the facade.” This too, says the psychologist, is characterized as an abusive relationship.

Do not let your partner say and / or ever think you need it to live financially well. Know that you have competence to build and live your own life, without having to exhibit a “facade marriage” and / or an “expensive lifestyle.”

18. You are simply afraid to end

When a woman is afraid to end a relationship, do not hesitate: she is abusive.

19. He is totally disrespectful to women

If you have ever noticed that your boyfriend, boyfriend or husband is disrespectful to women in general (for example, with your own mother, sisters, etc.), do not expect him to be respectful to you. Do not believe that he “changes overnight,” or that “it’s going to be totally different because he loves you.”

If you have identified with one or several signs of an abusive relationship, start thinking as soon as possible about how to get rid of it. Do not wait for the situation to get worse.

How to get out of an abusive relationship

Remember that you live in a country where women have their rights acquired. Count on the help of people you trust. And if that help is not enough, find the woman’s station.

In this context, some steps are very important in getting out of an abusive relationship:

    • Acknowledge: The first step, without doubt, is to recognize / accept. No, this is not normal; you do not need a relationship like that, and most importantly you MUST NOT accept it.
    • Talk to someone you trust: Talk, for example, to a friend you trust or your psychologist / therapist. By externalizing the problem, it will be easier to accept it and think of measures that should be taken.
    • Look for help: in addition to talking to someone you trust, you can call 180 (Women’s Assistance Center) or find a Women’s Police Station.
    • Be cautious: depending on the situation, it may not be good for your partner to notice that you want to end the relationship. Take appropriate action, but avoid saying that you “will leave it.” Acting is much more important than “threatening.”
    • Strengthen Your Self- Esteem: Be Sure To Get Rid Of An Abusive Relationship. Do not take seriously the offenses that your partner said. Focus on your qualities and remember that you have people around you who love and support you. Defects everyone has, however, no defect can be justification for a person thinking “that does not deserve something better”.
    • End the relationship: guidance could not be otherwise. An abusive relationship should not be maintained. And this, of course, is the most difficult step, but it is also the most liberating.

Lastly, do not blame yourself for “one day having entered into an abusive relationship.” It is not your fault. Just think about what you should do from now on.

Be cautious, but be especially determined. Love yourself, cherish your life and lean on those who love you and want your good.

Previous Post

Flat Tummy After Delivery Home Remedies

Next Post

What Foods To Introduce To Baby First

Next Post

What Foods To Introduce To Baby First

Discussion about this post

More Articles

  • 10 Tips For Good Health
  • How To Treat Sinus Infection At Home – 10 Ways
  • Eucalyptus Bath To Relieve Stress, Headaches, and Skin Rejuvination
  • 10 Tips To Maintain Weight Loss
  • 6 Teas To Lower Cholesterol
  • Why Can’t I lose Weight? 7 Sneaky Causes Of Weight Loss Resistance
  • How to use the Self Massage Roller to reduce Post-Workout Pain
  • Hair Building Fibers Are they good They’re for you
  • 10 Health Benefits of Lemon
  • Couples Therapy: What is it and when to start?

Tags

Acne Allergy alternative medicine angola Ayurvedic Remedies Cancer Children coronavirus dental care tips dentist diabetes diabetic care diabetic products diabetic socks drug abuse drugs eyes eye tips green tea hair Headache herbal tea herbs kratom Marijuana men mental health misconceptions natural cough remedies occult oral health Parkinson Disease pregnancy sinus skin Stress supplements teeth care vitamins weight gain weight loss women yellow kratom
logo

Categories

  • Alternative Therapies
  • Amazing Health Facts
  • Beauty Tips
  • Daily Health Tips
  • Diet & Nutrician
  • Exercise
  • Featured
  • Health Benefits
  • Health Products
  • Medical
  • Mental Health
  • Natural Home Remedies
  • News
  • Parenting Tips
  • Psychology
  • Relationship
  • Self Improvement

Tags

Acne Allergy alternative medicine angola Ayurvedic Remedies Cancer Children coronavirus dental care tips dentist diabetes diabetic care diabetic products diabetic socks drug abuse drugs eyes eye tips green tea hair Headache herbal tea herbs kratom Marijuana men mental health misconceptions natural cough remedies occult oral health Parkinson Disease pregnancy sinus skin Stress supplements teeth care vitamins weight gain weight loss women yellow kratom
  • Home
  • News
  • Disclaimer
  • Privacy Policy
  • Contact Us

© 2015 - 2023 Healthinputs.com | Web Design & SEO Services by Seohawk

No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • Health Tips
  • Home Remedies
  • Beauty
  • Nutrition
  • Alternative Therapies

© 2015 - 2023 Healthinputs.com | Web Design & SEO Services by Seohawk